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Single and Complete: Non-fiction ebook on Amazon and Goodreads



The focus of Single and Complete: Alone and Content is to uplift the single lady to know who she is, to respect and encourage others to respect her status, to kick out the life suckers, and to encourage her do exploits and go places.

Single lady, capitalize on the moment and fly to the highest heights; step away from the ordinary and be extraordinary. Experience joy while fulfilling your God-given vision.

Get the kindle version on amazon:

Single and complete  - Kindle version

You can also find it on goodreads:

Single and Complete ebook

Please read and let me have your frank opinions.

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Novel Writing – Progress Report III


Done! Fini!! Finito!!!

It has been a month of drive, uncertainty and pressure but above all it was good. The novel “The Forbidden” has been drafted. Indeed I agree with Chris Baty that a deadline can generate a product even if it is in its rough form. Yes, the novel is in its rough form and certainly not for anyone’s eyes. There definitely will be re-writing and re-writing but I believe the challenging part has been achieved. I have been planning to write this novel since 2007 and never got round to it. There always seemed to be more important things to do.

Last year I registered for NaNoWriMo but did not write a word. This year I decided to spread the news to help motivate me. It was a good move because I did not want to back out a second time. Although I am undergoing a postgraduate program, I did not envisage to still be on the program this year. I started the program in 2008. The past years I zeroed down to the program to finish it but it has been one challenge or another. So this year I resolved that although the postgraduate program is important, writing is also important. I decided to treat the program as a 9 to 5 work. So no school work was done at nights. Planning in that manner gave me an opportunity to write the novel at nights.

I realized I could have actually written the novel back in 2007 if I had been deliberate and scheduled a time daily for it. Perhaps it was because there was no urgency in it. Registering and committing to NaNoWriMo has indeed been helpful and also visiting the forums on NaNoWriMo site provided the motivation to achieve 50,000 words.

I have learnt some lessons which I will share in the next post. So watch this blog!

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Novel Writing – Progress Report II


  This is the third week of National Novel Writing Month and I am making progress. So far I have written 35000 words. It is thrilling to know I could get to 35000 words because when I wrote 20000 words, I lost interest in the storyline. I found myself plotting a new storyline. The new storyline was completely different and in a different genre. It would in no way fit into the present story. So I ‘sat myself down’ and we had a good talk.

I convinced myself to continue with the first story since I had written 20000 words. To get the story moving, I plunged in a tragedy which gave me over 4000 words and then my main character changed location and I got additional 10000 words.

Consequently, the new storyline was shelved for another writing month.

My target is to get to 45000 words by weekend. I will keep you posted.

So did anyone join the writing challenge? Leave a comment and share how you are faring.

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Novel Writing – Progress Report I


 It is novel writing month! Did you register with NanoWriMo for the writing challenge? How are you faring?

I did register for the writing challenge and I am pushing to ensure I cross the finish line of 50,000 words. I don’t think I am doing badly currently. I have written 15,000 words. If I continue at this pace, I certainly should win!

I am pushing to write as much as I can the first two weeks because the last two weeks will be quite busy for me. School work will take another dimension then.

I try to put in about three hours each night except for the first night. I wrote about 600 words the first night but I gathered momentum subsequently. Sincerely, there are some nights I am tired and all I want to do is sleep. However, when I remember I have announced to some friends I am writing a novel, I want to push on. Also when I read on NanoWriMo site that my word statistics is added to the total for my home region, I want to keep writing.

When it is writing time, I switch off my phone and sign out of my mails! I try to cut down on distractions so that I can achieve more.

Now I have to go back to writing. I will brief you on my progress again next week.

Wish me luck!

Are you writing? Please leave a comment and let’s know how it is going.

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Chris Baty demystified novel writing in “No plot? No Problem!”


Novel writing is the desire of many but only a few get round to ever writing the first draft. Of course this is due to both internal and external reasons.

Internal reasons

Internal reasons may vary amongst individuals but the major reason is fear. A number of us allow the fear of failure to cripple us before we even attempt to achieve a goal. Here are a few quotes to help conquer your fears and challenge you to step out.

“Failure seldom stops you. What stops you is the fear of failure.”
– Jack Lemmon

“Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.”
– Truman Capote

“Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.”
– Sir Winston Churchill

External reasons

You may have told a few people you want to write and you have been ridiculed. You were probably told writing is for those who are highly talented and so you don’t fit into that category. You may also have been told that publishing is difficult and a wannabe will never be able to get the attentions of any of the traditional publishing houses. In addition, you may have been told you need a bachelor’s degree in creative writing before you can ever write.


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Is it important to have a specific time for writing daily?


I was listening to Elizabeth Gilbert talk on nurturing creativity on; I could not help but ask myself if it is important to have a specific time for writing daily. She said she gets up at the same time everyday to write. Furthermore, Jurgen Wolff in his “ten top tips for new writers” also advised writers to schedule a specific time to write. He stated that if writing is not scheduled, it will not happen. I decided to check a few writers’ writing routines.

John Grisham is at his desk by 5:30pm five times a week

Alaa Al Aswany writes from 6:30am to 10:30am six days a week.

Anthony Trollope who wrote 49 novels in 35 years wrote everyday from 5am to 8am.

Franz Kafka wrote in the nights from 11pm until 1 or 2am.


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How do I know I can write?



Have you ever asked yourself this question? Perhaps the thoughts of you being a writer have crossed your mind a number of times. You may dismiss them because the critic in you can’t imagine you can write. As you discuss with friends, or you read on writing you ask, “how do I know I can write”

Perhaps, I should define who a writer is:

A writer is simply a person who pens or types his thoughts and ideas on a paper or word document to inform, motivate, entertain and persuade his readers

So you know you can write if:


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